About five years ago, someone told me about a study that found 85% of what we worry about never comes true. Quick math, that means only 15% is really worth worrying about. It may even be less than that.
…it turns out that 85 percent of what subjects worried about never happened, and with the 15 percent that did happen, 79 percent of subjects discovered either they could handle the difficulty better than expected, or the difficulty taught them a lesson worth learning. This means that 97 percent of what you worry over is not much more than a fearful mind punishing you with exaggerations and misperceptions.
– Huffpost
I wish I was armed with this knowledge earlier and maybe it would have alleviated some “mind punishment” in my early years. On the flip side, a good friend of mine who suffered from bi-polar disorder described her mindset when she was experiencing a challenging episode. She told me
I know it’s not logical, but I can’t help the way I feel
I didn’t fully appreciate these words until I experienced an anxiety attack at work, myself. I knew the thoughts running through my head were irrational, yet they continued to torment me and I couldn’t turn them off. I heard her voice. I know it’s not logical, but I can’t help the way I feel. Yep, I got it now. I’m fortunate, I’ve only experienced that one anxiety attack (knock on wood). In a weird way, I’m glad I did because I now understand the true meaning of empathy.
But yeah, I wish I knew the 85% number earlier. It would have been helpful to some degree. Now when I get inside my own head worrying about things, I do think of this stat. Sometimes reason wins over and I’ll take the “sometimes” whenever I can get it. It’s good to have a number of tools in your bag of tricks and I keep this one handy so I can pull it out at a moments notice.
Green Day released Basket Case in 1994. The song was inspired by Billie Joe Armstrong’s bouts with anxiety attacks and feelings of going crazy.
Lead singer Billie Joe Armstrong suffered from various panic disorders while he was growing up – he would sometimes wake up in the middle of the night with a panic attack and walk around his neighborhood to settle down. “Basket Case” was a cathartic and personal song for him. “The only way I knew how to deal with it was to write a song about it,” he explained.
– Songfacts
Sometimes I give myself the creeps
– Basket Case, Green Day
Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me
It all keeps adding up
I think I’m cracking up
Am I just paranoid?
Remember – 85% never comes true. That’s a BIG number. And the majority of the time, you’ll be able to cope with the other fifteen. Give this some thought the next time you’re feeling anxiety creeping up on you. It may help you get a few extra hours of sleep.
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Do you have the time
To listen to me whine
About nothing and everything
All at once
I am one of those
Melodramatic fools
Neurotic to the bone
No doubt about it
Sometimes I give myself the creeps
Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me
It all keeps adding up
I think I'm cracking up
Am I just paranoid?
Am I just stoned?
I went to a shrink
To analyze my dreams
She says it's lack of sex
That's bringing me down
I went to a whore
He said "My life's a bore"
So quit my whining cause
It's bringing her down
Sometimes I give myself the creeps
Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me
It all keeps adding up
I think I'm cracking up
Am I just paranoid?
Uh, yuh, yuh, ya
Grasping to control
So I better hold on
Sometimes I give myself the creeps
Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me
It all keeps adding up
I think I'm cracking up
Am I just paranoid?
Am I just stoned?
I feel this is such a common problem people deal with, worrying, so it’s very relatable! I know I used to worry a lot as a kid, thinking the absolute worst was going to happen and stressed myself out over it. Good to know that the odds of the likelihood of what we worry about won’t actually happen are low! A great reminder for when I find myself worrying now. Thanks for sharing. ✌️Also, Green Day is the best!🤘
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I worried a lot as a kid also. I’m learning that the worst case scenario rarely occurs. It’s good to be cognizant of it, but the probability is low…
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Love this – I didn’t know it was that high of a percent, but I love how your friend put it.I’ve felt the same daily sometimes. I’ve never been much of a Green Day fan, but that song always resonated with me lol 💙
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I was surprised as well. I’m a numbers guy, so it really resonated with me. I looked back in my own history and the study was kind of spot on. I’m trying to keep the worst case scenario in perspective. The probability is pretty low
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Great stat to have in your toolkit. 85%. I will try to remember that. (I definitely worry too much.)
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I think worrying too much is pretty common. I hope this helps!
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Thank you for that statistic! I will remember that when I keep overthinking everything.
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Man, don’t you hate overthinking things? I do it too often!
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I say that thing about logic a lot, “Logically, I know that, but my mind doesn’t worry about logic.” or something along those lines. 🙂 Mark Twain said: I’ve had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened. and I totally got that. My brain doesn’t work with numbers. ^_^
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I like that Twain quote!
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