When I was younger, I used to think that debt was a part of life. I had multiple credit cards, student loans and a car loan. I also had rent, insurance and enjoyed going out with friends. Let’s not talk about my Vegas runs. More was going out the door than coming in. I felt like I was running on a treadmill at full pace and not getting anywhere. Then one day, I said, “No more.”
They never taught personal finance in high school or college. So I had to educate myself. I began reading personal finance books and later, listening to a number of podcasts. I’ve pieced together a number of personal rules I try to live by. They work for me, but may not be everyone’s cup of tea.
- Spend less than you earn.
- Automate savings. Pay yourself first. Have savings automatically taken out of your account first and then live on the rest.
- Before any major purchases, ask yourself if it is a want or a need. If it’s a need, buy it. If it is a want, wait 24 hours to see if this is an impulse buy or not. Just make sure you don’t rationalize a want into a need.
- Pay your credit cards off in full each month. If you can’t afford it, don’t buy it. It’s a simple sounding rule, but can be the toughest to overcome.
- You don’t have to keep up with the Joneses. They don’t care and neither should you. It’s easy to fall into this trap.
My transition wasn’t easy. One of the toughest things is behavior change. And that’s what this is – reprogramming years of behavior that’s tattooed on your brain. It can really hurt sometimes to make a shift. But once you get over that hump, it becomes habit. The first step, hop off the treadmill. Trust me, your future self will thank you.
When I read this prompt, a song started playing in my head. I wasn’t sure of the exact title and had no clue about the band name. With the help of Google, I found it. Money (That’s What I Want) by the Flying Lizards. Yet another song that I had no idea was a cover. This originally was a rhythm and blues song by Barrett Strong. Interestingly, the song came out of an improvised jam session.
The song developed out of a spontaneous recording session . . . in Detroit. Gordy and Strong began by improvising on piano and vocals and were joined by Benny Benjamin on drums and Brian Holland on tambourine. Authors Jim Cogan and William Clark only identify the guitarist and bass guitarist as “two white kids walking home from high school [who] heard the music out on the street and wandered in to Hitsville [and] asked if they could play along.” They add “Strong claimed he never saw the two boys who played bass and guitar again.”
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Improvised music is beautiful and very cool when it works. It’s definitely art. Improvised budgeting, on the other hand, is a tough nut to crack and can lead to a train wreck. Trust me, I know. I lived it.
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The best things in life are free
But you can give them to the birds and bees
I want money
That's what I want
That's what I want
That's what I want
Your love is such a thrill
But your love won't pay my bills
I want money
That's what I want
That's what I want
That's what I want
Money don't get everything it's true
What it don't get, I can't use
I want money
That's what I want
That's what I want
That's what I want
I want money
I want lots of money
In fact, I want so much money
Give me your money
Just give me money
We had Home Economics in high school but it was just basic check writing and how to balance your check book. The general public needs more financial education in school.
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I agree!
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“Pay your credit cards off in full each month” that’s a biggie! I really tried to instill that in my kids. SO many people get in hot water with their credit cards. Good rules!
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That’s such good advice for your kids! It can be a slippery slope!
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Oh, I was right there with you with more money sailing out of my pocket than I had in the bank, thanks to early reliance on credit cards. Was tough (and a few lean months) reining it back in.
I remember his song coming out; it has such an amusing tone to it, so it’s not surprising to learn today through your site that it came out a jam session. Great post!
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The tone is amusing… I remember listening to it on the radio and finding myself oddly drawn to it. It’s strange but fun…
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Exactly. I remember the same experience.
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Great advice! My parents did not handle money well, so I had a difficult time learning about how to manage money as an adult. It’s an essential skill to learn.
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