When I was 20, I didn’t like when a liquor store owner or the casino pit boss asked to see my ID. For obvious reasons, I hated that. I was under 21.
When I turned 21, I almost wanted them ask me. C’mon. Ask me. I’ve got my ID at the ready, ready to flash with a flourish.
Later in my twenties, I was resigned that this was just the drill. They ask, I hand them my ID, transaction done. No sweat, no problem.
In my thirties, I had places to go and things to do (my delusional self-important self says). It was a nuisance when they asked. I’d hand over my ID with the hurry up, your bothering me attitude. Good grief. Get over myself. They’re just doing their job.
In my forties, it became a little bit of a joke. Seriously? My ID? You’ll laugh when you see my birth date, I thought. Little did I know, it was probably company policy to ask everyone for ID regardless of wrinkles or greying hair. It still felt good for a laugh, anyway.
Now in my fifties, I coast right on by the register without a second thought. I don’t look that young or that old, but you can at least throw the old man a bone and card me once in awhile. I won’t mind. Think of it as your good deed for the day. Give an old guy something to laugh about. It won’t cost you a nickel.
Funny how a simple question changes over the years…
Music Industry How To put together a list of best songs about being 21. The Cranberries’ Twenty One topped the list.
Dolores O’Riordan had a mesmerizing voice. She sang songs about growing up and facing the world on your own that became the theme music for young people in the mid-nineties. Her tone was fierce and angry while also being soft and warm. “Twenty-One” is about leaving old dreams behind and finding new reasons to live. She wrote it on her twenty first birthday.
– musicindustryhowto
I’m always amazed at the accomplishments people make at such a young age. O’Riordan wrote this beautiful song at age twenty one. Meanwhile, I was probably shot gunning a beer celebrating my birthday. There definitely is a wide gap in accomplishments there.
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I don't think it's going to happen anymore
You took my thoughts from me, now I want nothing more
And did you think you could just take it all away
I don't think it's happening, this is what I say
Leave me alone, leave me alone
Leave me alone 'cause I found it all
Twenty one, twenty one, twenty one
So I don't think it's going to happen' anymore
I don't think it's going to happen anymore
Twenty one, twenty one, twenty one
Twenty one, twenty one, twenty one
Today-a-a-a-a-a-a-y
Today-a-a-a-a-a-a-y
Today-a-a-a-a-a-a-y
Today-a-a-a-a-a-a-y
(Oh-oh-oh-oh-ah-ah)
Twenty one, twenty one
(Oh-oh-oh-oh-ah-ah)
Twenty one, twenty one
(Oh-oh-oh-oh-ah-ah)
Twenty one, twenty one
(Oh-oh-oh-oh-ah-ah)
Twenty one, twenty one
(A-a-ah, a-a-ah)
Twenty one, twenty one
(A-a-ah, a-a-ah)
Twenty one, twenty one, twenty one
Haha. I’ve totally seen classmates on Facebook bragging about getting carded . Funny, how the tables have turned! (We used to live in fear of our fake IDs getting us in big trouble.)
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My buddy’s fake ID used the name Mike Tyson back in the day when he was the boxing champion. That always raised eyebrows…
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😂
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There’s a joke online about somebody buying alcohol at a store. The clerk doesn’t even asked to see their ID, saying “I saw the 19 on your date of birth and figured I didn’t need to see the rest”
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Haha… that’s funny!
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Good point, how perceptions can change as you mature.
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I’m a career bartender. Your description of how people react when I card them is so on point.
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Shot-gunning beers, oh does that bring up memories, my oh my!
I’ve always loved Dolores’ voice… such a tragedy the world lost her so young.
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It is a tragedy. Her voice was amazing.
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In my state, they put a huge red stamp on your license that warns UNDER 21. After you actually turn 21, you have to go down to the DMV and wait in ungodly long lines to pay for a new license without the stamp. I always thought they should just mail you a new one automatically on your 21st birthday. Since I’m not a big drinker, I kept putting it off. Until I tried to rent a car at age 25. They saw my birthdate, but would not let me rent the car because of the ridiculous stamp! Give me a break! I don’t get carded often at my age, but I do when I buy cold medicine! Go figure.
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The red stamp probably makes sense. So does automatically sending you a new ID at 21. The DMV is not suppose to make sense.
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Funny! CVS Pharmacy ask people about their birthdays at the pick up line. And I’m always curious to know peoples age while waiting for my turn. Especially if there’s a good looking guy ahead of me! 😜
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Hahaha… that made me smile!
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😉
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I haven’t been carded in forever, lol! I loved The Cranberries. So many memories. Yes, to be that young and talented.
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I had a fake i.d. used it once got it taken away😂
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