High school tends to be cliquish. It’s natural for kids to be at that age. We don’t have kids so I haven’t seen up close what it’s like these days, but I’m guessing it’s still relatively similar. Kids are kids.
Early on in high school, I fell into this mode. As a freshman, I was trying to find my way, searching for acceptance. But as the years progressed, I began making friends across different social circles. Because of this, I adopted a basic philosophy.
If you’re cool to me, I’ll be cool to you.
Nothing ground breaking or earth shattering. Some things don’t have to be overly complicated. This made high school life more enjoyable and easier to navigate. I still have maintained this philosophy till today. Who doesn’t need a few more friends?
Pretty in Pink is a classic 80’s film about social cliques in high school life. I didn’t know the Psychedelic Furs’ title song wasn’t written specifically for the film. It was initially released years before this John Hughes movie was created. Molly Ringwald introduced it to Hughes who eventually wrote a movie based upon it. The only thing, he misinterpreted the lyrics.
“The song is about a girl who sleeps around a lot and thinks that she’s popular because of it. It makes her feel empowered somehow and popular, and in fact, the people that she’s sleeping with are laughing about her behind her back and talking about her.”
“A few years later, Molly Ringwald took it to John Hughes and said, ‘I love this song, we should use it for a movie.’ He took it away, listened to it, and wrote “Pretty In Pink”, which totally got the whole thing wrong. It was nothing like the spirit of the song at all. It’s really hard to say whether it was damaging for us. I suppose we got tied in with the story of the film, and if that’s what people thought the story was about, and didn’t look much further than that, they were getting a very false impression.”
– Songfacts
I always assumed the song was made for the movie and fell into Hughes incorrect trap about the song meaning. After reading the lyrics again, I see it now, the Furs’ original intent. I know I enjoy trying to understand the exact interpretation and in this case, it’s been given to me without any grey wiggle room. I think I’ll keep the Hugh’s interpretation, though. I know it’s wrong, but it’s what I’ve always known. Music is also about feeling and I like the feeling of nostalgia, especially when it’s aged for forty years. Sorry about that, Furs. I hope you understand. Please don’t kick me out of your fan club.
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Caroline laughs and it's raining all day
She loves to be one of the girls
She lives in the place in the side of our lives
Where nothing is ever put straight
She turns herself 'round and she smiles and she says
"This is it, that's the end of the joke"
And loses herself in her dreaming and sleep
And her lovers walk through in their coats
She's pretty in pink
Isn't she?
Pretty in pink
Isn't she?
All of her lovers all talk of her notes
And the flowers that they never sent
And wasn't she easy?
Isn't she pretty in pink?
The one who insists he was first in the line
Is the last to remember her name
He's walking around in this dress that she wore
She is gone but the joke's the same
Pretty in pink
Isn't she?
Pretty in pink
Isn't she?
Caroline talks to you softly sometimes
She says, "I love you" and too much
She doesn't have anything you want to steal
Well, nothing you can touch
She waves, she buttons your shirt
The traffic is waiting outside
She hands you this coat
She gives you her clothes, these cars collide
Pretty in pink
Isn't she?
Pretty in pink
Isn't she?
Wow, another surprising backstory to one of my 80’s favorites! I also thought the song was created for the movie. Now, I want to watch the movie again…for the hundredth time. Love John Hughes films! High school? Not so much.
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Did anyone really truly love High School ?
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Wow, I had forgotten what a HUGE star Molly Ringwald was! She got John Hughes to make a movie based on a song she happened to like?? It’s like her star power just evaporated into thin air. I wonder if it was her choice or Hollywood’s. (Actually, I just saw her in a tiny role in Feud: Capote vs the Swans.)
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I heard her on a few podcasts. Here is one from The Moth. I think she was on an episode of This American Life as well. Both shows she discussed parenting. Here is The Moth episode if you are interested.
https://themoth.org/storytellers/molly-ringwald
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Here is the This American Life episode
https://www.thisamericanlife.org/813/is-that-what-i-look-like/act-three-5
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Thanks so much! I’ll listen to these on my walks.
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It was so great to see her in Feud! I’ve always just adored her.
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This is my jam! Team Steff 4ever.
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I will say Spader does a really good job. He has played a lot of unique roles and he usually nails it.
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He’s an exceptional actor.
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And highly underrated, in my opinion.
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Agreed!
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I think hughes paid more attention to the chorus than anything else. I think most people including myself who saw the film in theater never even remotely paid close attention to the lyrics anyway. I mean if anything it could be from the perspective of Steph played by James Spader and how he would think of Andie because she had zero interest in him.
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I think you are spot on there.
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The Furs have been a favourite since they got their start.
I enjoyed your post and the push and pull with the song’s meaning. It reminds me that many songwriters choose not to tell the meaning of their songs, wanting people to find and attach their own meaning. I think it works fine if there’s a bit of both. I watched most of the ‘Brat Pack’ movies but don’t think I ever saw this one. I see it pop up sometimes on a streaming service so shold just hit “play” sometime.
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Interpreting the lyrics was near impossible before the internet. I had my guesses, but there wasn’t enough information at my fingertips. I’m learning a lot of the song background with this blog and sometimes I’m just floored. It’s been fun.
The movie was good as a teenager. I’m trying to decide if it’s still good as an adult. The Breakfast Club still translates, but this one may be on the fence. John Cryer does a good job. So does James Spader as the villain.
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I was surprised to hear the Furs’ original intent – until I thought about it for a second. I’ll stick to my movie nostalgia as well!
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